bug: children specs are not properly ignored when disabling a plugin

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Neovim version (nvim -v)

NVIM v0.10.3

Operating system/version

Arch Linux

Describe the bug

When using the specs property in a Lazy plugin specification to add non dependency spec modifications it seems that they are always applied even when the parent plugin is disabled. These specifications should be ignored since the plugin that adds them is no longer enabled

Steps To Reproduce

1. nvim -u repro.lua, start up the minimal configuration
2. :Lazy, open lazy and see that plenary.nvim is disabled even though it shouldn't

Expected Behavior

plenary.nvim should not be disabled because lazydev.nvim is disabled which should invalidate all of the children specs under it.

Repro

vim.env.LAZY_STDPATH = ".repro"
load(vim.fn.system "curl -s https://raw.githubusercontent.com/folke/lazy.nvim/main/bootstrap.lua")()

require("lazy.minit").repro {
  spec = {
    -- add a random plugin as an example
    { "nvim-lua/plenary.nvim" },
    {
      "folke/lazydev.nvim",
      enabled = false, -- disable lazydev so all child specs should be ignored
      specs = {
        -- disable plenary if lazydev is enabled
        { "nvim-lua/plenary.nvim", enabled = false },
      },
    },
  },
}